Tuesday, November 26, 2013

BEING GAY IS A CHOICE

Let me explain, this blog is not going to be what you think, I am not against gays, lesbians, or bisexuals, and this is not to bash anyone, in fact my heart goes out to anyone having to live in this reality where liking the same sex is not accepted, hence why I am writing this blog to begin with, I have something that has been on my heart and mind for awhile now and I have to get it off my chest. Whenever I hear people that are gay say “I was born this way and it was not my choice” I hear pain in there voice, sometimes it is such a breakdown of pain that I can feel behind the words is “why me God?”, this world has a way of putting guilt upon a person that even the parents feel guilty as if they did something wrong to deserve a gay son or daughter, I just feel like this cycle has to stop because I don’t feel like it is healthy for anyone. Instead of saying “why me God”, or “I was born this way”, and things like “I did not choose to be gay”, instead say things like “this is my choice and they just have to accept it”, because whenever you say “I did not choose this”…you take away your power, whenever you say “why me God”…you take away your power, but when you say things like “this is the choice I made and this makes me happy”…you take back your power, and when you say to people that “they have a choice weather or not to accept it” then not only are you not giving your power away but you are also giving them the power to choose to accept it, it gives them something to think about, sometimes we just don’t think we have a choice unless given the opportunity to choose. 
  What I feel is that we all are both male and female, I don’t believe that the soul or the spirit has a sex, I believe that love is love and that love is not bound to male, female or human, that you can love anything and anybody, I am not gay or a lesbian but I do feel like I chose not to be gay, I could be with the same sex and love them just the same but I chose to be with the opposite sex, and that makes me feel empowered…that I can choose and that it is a choice, I feel the male side of me and I feel the female side of me, I don’t define myself by my relationships. I have noticed that people that like both sexes are more open and loving people, connected to the world around them and to others, they have so much love to give that it does not matter which sex that they are loving, they are just being who they are which is love, even bisexuals have it bad because the gays or straights don’t like or accept them, even gay people don’t understand how you can like both sexes, people don’t like what they do not understand so I hope that I can shed some light into why and how it can be that someone can love both sexes, because they are not defined by sex, there soul and spirit does not have a sex therefore they are not bound by the rules of this world, they merely go with how they feel and what they were put here on earth to do, they give me inspiration to open my heart up and live through my soul and spirit and not through this flesh and what my brain has been hardwired to believe.

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