LOVE + ADMIRATION = DEEPER LOVE

I use to wonder why I felt like I loved someone more than another, first I thought someone was my soul mate but when I discovered that I could love someone else with just as much intensity or more, then I realized after doing a lot of inner self discovery that what I was feeling was levels of admiration, I also did a discovery on love itself that had me baffled for a long time, I wondered how people could fall out of love and I had to ask myself…did they ever love that person at all?, on my own discover and journey on the situation…I thought it was time to share what I had learned. Love is not something that is measured it just is, we were made from love, for love, to love, love is what we are so it is very natural for us to love, hate is taught but that’s another subject, anyway back to the subject of love. People were made to connect to each other, that is how were hard wired, so if you feel love at first sight then other than spiritual reasons it could mean that you are connecting to that persons true self or their energy that they are putting off, maybe it is there confidence, sweetness, power or personality etc., something that you are connecting to that you could be admiring. Sometimes we love someone because they have something that we want as far as personality trait, something that we admire in them that if we were to get closer to them then we would think that we could acquire that trait, or if we don’t have it then maybe them is the missing ingredient in our lives that will complete us, we all want to be whole and most of us don’t think that we can be whole on our own, so we need something or someone else, that’s why a relationship where two people have what the other is lacking makes for a good partnership, because the two admire each other they tend to not only stay together longer but get along a lot better and tend to be happier in the process long term, but if one stops admiring the other person then that could be a dangerous ingredient in the mix, and doesn’t taste very good. So the next time you love someone so deeply that your willing to die for them, you might want to ask yourself “what is it that I need from them?” that I cannot give myself, and that is why after a break up we can tend to grow from it, because it brings us deeper into ourselves, love is a powerful thing but love with admiration is even more powerful.