Men And Their Emotions

I think there is something that needs to be talked about…and that is about men and their emotions. Men are human and to think that they do not have feelings and emotions is absurd, when I was dating I found something to be interesting and that was that men were actually more sensitive than women, when a woman gets hurt by a man they can get back up and love again due to them wearing there feelings on there sleeves sort of speak, but I found that when a man got hurt by a woman they seemed to not recover quite as gracefully, as to where women could keep getting hurt over and over again but still had hope in love. When men get hurt they shut down as if killing there emotions get rid of the hurt and pain, but I believe this only makes it worse because they never really deal with it. Actually I think gay guys have it good because at least they are more in touch with their feelings and emotions, sometimes I wonder if they always felt different than other men because they allowed themselves just to be human with feelings and emotions. Crying is so therapeutic, I cannot even imagine men not being able to have this outlet, sometimes when my emotions are trapped inside of me…just having a good cry releases that energy from my body and I feel better, like a weight has been lifted from off of my body and all I needed was a good cry, I believe God gave us tears for a reason, we have all been gifted with tears and we should all use them, no wonder guys are so easy to anger and not to sadness because they have been taught to hold back the tears, but that anger is putting too much stress on the heart and you see a lot of guys having heart attacks at early ages compared to women, the heart needs to be free to express itself, let the heart out of jail…let the heart be open, it is crying for freedom. Just like women have to control their emotions so do men, like if you are in a work environment or around a group of people maybe you have an image to uphold or have to act in a responsible manner and that is ok for the moment but to keep it in and not dealt with is what I am more concerned with on the health of any individual weather they are male or female, a guy usually will think they come across as a wussy or weak but actually this world craves passion and passion too is stemmed from emotion and that is sexy, that’s why women love musicians because they express themselves through there emotions in there music, people want to feel and if they do not feel you then they cannot relate to you, I believe this stereo type of not being human and able to express themselves has to die down because it is killing us.