There Is No Such Thing As A Problem

We were hard wired to believe that there are problems but really there has not been a so called problem that has not been solved or that has not been actually vital to our evolution, just like the day needs the night…the night needs the day in order for things to function, as do our so called problems, the reason why I say that there is no such thing as a problem is because I want you to delete the word or thought from your mind, I want you to focus on the solution and by doing so your brain deletes the problem because it is too focused on the solution, if you think that the problem is stressful then it will hold you back from coming up with the solution and in my opinion only wastes time, we were hard wired to think that problems were a negative thing so some go around avoiding problems as much as possible which can lead us down a path of never taking chances in life or doing something that we love to do due to some so called problem that might enter our computer brains, it’s all about re-training the brain. Being problem oriented and not solution oriented creates a voice within our brains to look for problems, even to the point of creating more problems because that is where our eyes go automatically hence creating more problems, like when you focus on a particular car that you like or want and as you do so you start to see that car more often, now that car holds weight and takes our focus away from the other cars on the street, that is just one analogy and it can actually cause stress on the body by continually being focused on problems, sometimes the mind will even say that it will not be happy until the problem is fixed, so enjoy the process of coming up with the solution knowing that the solution is on it’s way, faith will then create the solution. Now what if you were taught by your parents to feel like you being born was a problem?, that too could create more problems in your life because you will subconsciously have to find a problem just to confirm to yourself that you were right even though you were not the one who downloaded problem inside of you, that’s why what our parents say to us growing up is vitally important to our impressionable minds. By focusing on problems it makes us start to see the world as one big problem, as we hear all the media, news and people talking and see more and more problems with less solutions then it drags us down and we start to feel heavy after awhile even depressed, I believe that if everyone started focusing on solutions then this world would be a powerful place, at least a solution gives us hope. Also some problems are truly an illusion because we found later on that it was for our best interest even though at the time we felt pain, like over a breakup or loss of a job that would have never lead us to the better relationship that we have today or us owning our own business eventually, at the time it was a point of pain and ended up being our biggest pleasure and form of celebration that later on led you from point A to point B, so I encourage everyone to focus on the solution and where you go from here rather than the problem. Lets say that at the beginning of the day you have so much that you need to get done and you wake up feeling exhausted even before the day begins, I encourage you to turn your mind around about how your going to feel once you fix or do whatever you need to do for the day to get results, focus on the results and not the problem, once you accomplish something it is like a domino effect that makes you feel good which causes you to want to conquer more so called problems. Also a fun thing to do is to tell yourself you get to do things instead of you have to do things, so instead of saying I have to do dishes or I have to go pick up my kid from school, you tell yourself you get to do it and enjoy the process, live in the moment and ask yourself how you can enjoy this more, like on your ride to wherever you get to go enjoy some good relaxing music, enjoy the sceneries and sounds, enjoy relaxing in the seat of your car, if your doing dishes feel the soap and water on your hands and how enjoyable it is caring for another human being or something like that, sometimes by saying you have to do something it makes a person want to put it off even more, how I started to enjoy doing dishes was in this way and sometimes I will say to myself that I will only do cups or plates or something more fun to wash and I usually end up doing more, but at least something is better than nothing, go as far as appreciating how privileged it is just to have two arms and hands and legs when some don’t, appreciation works well because with every step we take we are making this world a better place weather you are working for someone else to being a mom or caretaker for someone, with every step you take you are making yours and other peoples lives better, just sitting here thinking is you making the world a better place especially if you are choosing to change your mind for the better and positive. Start living more in the moment because if you are too busy thinking about other things then you cannot truly give your best to coming up with solutions, if you have 10 things on your mind and your doing 1 of those ten things then you are not giving your best to the one thing that you are doing, your creativity will not be as strong weighed down with other thoughts, you will not be able to be the best that you can be leaving yourself feeling that you were not satisfied with yourself or that you could have done more, when you live in the moment it helps you get into the Zone which is powerful. If you were to die a minute from now…what would matter most to you?, would it be the things that you are worried about?, this question helps when you are under stress, it brings things into perspective, usually we think about these things when people close to us die, and someones death could be life altering for the person left behind, but I say why wait till someone dies!?, why not do it right now?, appreciating what is really important and start living life!, doing this on a regular basis could change the way you live your life and the decisions that you make, it might create you to be a happier person which in turn could help you be more creative in your life, it could even help you feel healthier, our bodies do not respond well to stress so the tools that I am giving you here are for a happier and healthier life and how much vitamins your body receives from the food you eat, so now you know you have a choice on how many so called problems you have just by where your focus is, if you do not believe in problems then they just don’t exist plain and simple, you can either focus on the glass half empty or the glass half full, it’s your choice and being appreciative helps in this matter, like if you do not have a car…appreciate that you have two legs, if you do not have a mom or a dad then appreciate the people in your life who do love you, whatever you give your attention to has power, you are a world changer and as world changers they don’t have time to focus on what they don’t have or the so called problems, they look for solutions and get it done even if it is something small…they do that one thing that they are called to do, also put a smile on your face because it’s contagious and you never know if someone was feeling so dark that they were contemplating ending their life but because you smiled at them it gave them a spark of hope to keep going and to think maybe things aren’t as bad as they seem, that’s why what we think is more important than what others think because whatever we think…were right, healthy mind healthy life so start focusing on the positive things that will create solutions and change in ours and others life for the better, be a world changer.

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