Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Missing Someone = Lack (Vampire Life)

To miss someone is to feel pain and to feel incomplete, so have you ever asked yourself why is it that you miss someone?, the next time you miss someone ask yourself “what is it about that person I miss?”, in order to find what your missing. If you are feeling lonely it is because you are lacking something within yourself or you have a desire to connect with someone, if you connect with someone other than the person you wanted to connect with and still miss that person you originally wanted to connect with then one should ask themself “what is it that the person I miss gives me?”…that I am not able to give myself right now?. Missing someone is like giving your power away and the only way to take back your power is to fill the void within yourself, you could miss someone because they make you laugh…meaning you miss being more open and or laughing, maybe your missing more joy in your life at the moment, maybe your missing how you use to feel and they remind you of how you use to feel at a particular time in your past, when people say I miss the good old days then what they are really saying is that they are not able to find happiness in the time that they are living in right now, which can lead to depression and all sorts of illnesses to even early death, that’s why I am taking time to write this blog today because I do not want to see people keep feeling something harmful to their bodies that can easily be fixed with self awareness, so take time to feel what state your mind is in whenever you are missing someone, what is it that the person you are missing gives you?, find your lack and fill it with strength within yourself, if you need more laughter then maybe you should learn to make light or fun out of your heavy circumstances…that or go see a funny movie, if you need encouragement then read a self help book, watch a video or go to a seminar if you need to be motivated, fill the void with something that can actually make a difference in your life so that you are not so dependent on others, I always say…"change your mind change your life". Also what helps is learning to believe in yourself, love yourself, have fun with yourself…or learn to have fun with yourself, have hobbies and do things that you enjoy to do, there are plenty of people on this earth to do things with, how people can miss anyone should not even be a problem with so many people on this earth ;-) . Cut the umbilical cord and set yourself free, start living.

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