Missing Someone = Lack (Vampire Life)

To miss someone is to feel pain and to feel incomplete, so have you ever asked yourself why is it that you miss someone?, the next time you miss someone ask yourself “what is it about that person I miss?”, in order to find what your missing. If you are feeling lonely it is because you are lacking something within yourself or you have a desire to connect with someone, if you connect with someone other than the person you wanted to connect with and still miss that person you originally wanted to connect with then one should ask themself “what is it that the person I miss gives me?”…that I am not able to give myself right now?. Missing someone is like giving your power away and the only way to take back your power is to fill the void within yourself, you could miss someone because they make you laugh…meaning you miss being more open and or laughing, maybe your missing more joy in your life at the moment, maybe your missing how you use to feel and they remind you of how you use to feel at a particular time in your past, when people say I miss the good old days then what they are really saying is that they are not able to find happiness in the time that they are living in right now, which can lead to depression and all sorts of illnesses to even early death, that’s why I am taking time to write this blog today because I do not want to see people keep feeling something harmful to their bodies that can easily be fixed with self awareness, so take time to feel what state your mind is in whenever you are missing someone, what is it that the person you are missing gives you?, find your lack and fill it with strength within yourself, if you need more laughter then maybe you should learn to make light or fun out of your heavy circumstances…that or go see a funny movie, if you need encouragement then read a self help book, watch a video or go to a seminar if you need to be motivated, fill the void with something that can actually make a difference in your life so that you are not so dependent on others, I always say…"change your mind change your life". Also what helps is learning to believe in yourself, love yourself, have fun with yourself…or learn to have fun with yourself, have hobbies and do things that you enjoy to do, there are plenty of people on this earth to do things with, how people can miss anyone should not even be a problem with so many people on this earth  . Cut the umbilical cord and set yourself free, start living.

Satan Is My Bitch

Satan is my bitch…he works for me, he does whatever I tell him to do, how is that to stomach?. I want to invite you into a reality of there not being such things as good and evil, into everything being good including death, if you were to live your life that way…do you think it would be much different?. For me I grew up thinking good people did certain things and bad people did certain things but I found out that the things that I was taught were bad were actually good, so what things in your life that you view as being bad that if actually was viewed as being good would change your life drastically?, I grew up in the church believing that you have to watch out for the devil and his lies and deceiving ways, ultimately looking out for someone that I could not see, touch or feel, who’s name was called Satan, where did he come from and where is he now?, people would leave the church all the time due to them not feeling accepted because they sinned feeling powerless over Satan, there was like this war I was always being prepared for that caused a lot of stress in my life, I was supposed to feel more peace but felt like I was getting darker and darker instead of being the light of the world, there was so much separation that I created in order to keep myself safe, one day I realized that the devil worked for me and I took back my power, I no longer lived in fear in fact I felt more powerful, people are actually pretty powerful creatures and I believe we hold ourselves back from our power a lot of times, and religion is just one example, judgment causes separation but yet they will say that God will forgive over and over again…yet he is the judge, so what is our part?, to love?, to help each other?…but I tell you that judgment closes us off to both of those. What people don’t realize is that living in a world where you are angry at Satan, angry at sin…what I call hell fire damnation preaching, creates a lot of anger…and however you perceive God to be then that is what you will be like, and everybody does not view God exactly the same way at least not all the time, some days you might feel God’s love and other days you might feel his anger and get all bi-polar over it, a lot of people will think just because something feels bad, stressful, or hurtful that it has to be Satan but that is not taking responsibilities for our thoughts, I am going to tell you something…everyone has truth inside of them, if you believe Jesus is real then truth told you he is real, whatever is right for you is right for you, just ask yourself and your truth will speak to you, I go around asking myself questions all the time, I am not going to believe something someone told me unless my truth tells me it is real, otherwise it would be someone else’s truth and I have to live my truth for it to be authentic and real, to do this you do have to have one ingredient and that is belief in yourself, you have to be able to trust yourself and that is something that I had to work on in order to start living my truth. Even if you have hate for the devil you are still harboring hate in your heart, it has been proven that hate ages people and makes them sick as love and gratitude helps you to live longer and be healthier, if we focus our hearts to be love at all times then that is the flow that our bodies respond best to and it only makes sense that that’s the flow we should be in.

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There Is No Such Thing As A Problem

We were hard wired to believe that there are problems but really there has not been a so called problem that has not been solved or that has not been actually vital to our evolution, just like the day needs the night…the night needs the day in order for things to function, as do our so called problems, the reason why I say that there is no such thing as a problem is because I want you to delete the word or thought from your mind, I want you to focus on the solution and by doing so your brain deletes the problem because it is too focused on the solution, if you think that the problem is stressful then it will hold you back from coming up with the solution and in my opinion only wastes time, we were hard wired to think that problems were a negative thing so some go around avoiding problems as much as possible which can lead us down a path of never taking chances in life or doing something that we love to do due to some so called problem that might enter our computer brains, it’s all about re-training the brain. Being problem oriented and not solution oriented creates a voice within our brains to look for problems, even to the point of creating more problems because that is where our eyes go automatically hence creating more problems, like when you focus on a particular car that you like or want and as you do so you start to see that car more often, now that car holds weight and takes our focus away from the other cars on the street, that is just one analogy and it can actually cause stress on the body by continually being focused on problems, sometimes the mind will even say that it will not be happy until the problem is fixed, so enjoy the process of coming up with the solution knowing that the solution is on it’s way, faith will then create the solution. Now what if you were taught by your parents to feel like you being born was a problem?, that too could create more problems in your life because you will subconsciously have to find a problem just to confirm to yourself that you were right even though you were not the one who downloaded problem inside of you, that’s why what our parents say to us growing up is vitally important to our impressionable minds. By focusing on problems it makes us start to see the world as one big problem, as we hear all the media, news and people talking and see more and more problems with less solutions then it drags us down and we start to feel heavy after awhile even depressed, I believe that if everyone started focusing on solutions then this world would be a powerful place, at least a solution gives us hope. Also some problems are truly an illusion because we found later on that it was for our best interest even though at the time we felt pain, like over a breakup or loss of a job that would have never lead us to the better relationship that we have today or us owning our own business eventually, at the time it was a point of pain and ended up being our biggest pleasure and form of celebration that later on led you from point A to point B, so I encourage everyone to focus on the solution and where you go from here rather than the problem. Lets say that at the beginning of the day you have so much that you need to get done and you wake up feeling exhausted even before the day begins, I encourage you to turn your mind around about how your going to feel once you fix or do whatever you need to do for the day to get results, focus on the results and not the problem, once you accomplish something it is like a domino effect that makes you feel good which causes you to want to conquer more so called problems. Also a fun thing to do is to tell yourself you get to do things instead of you have to do things, so instead of saying I have to do dishes or I have to go pick up my kid from school, you tell yourself you get to do it and enjoy the process, live in the moment and ask yourself how you can enjoy this more, like on your ride to wherever you get to go enjoy some good relaxing music, enjoy the sceneries and sounds, enjoy relaxing in the seat of your car, if your doing dishes feel the soap and water on your hands and how enjoyable it is caring for another human being or something like that, sometimes by saying you have to do something it makes a person want to put it off even more, how I started to enjoy doing dishes was in this way and sometimes I will say to myself that I will only do cups or plates or something more fun to wash and I usually end up doing more, but at least something is better than nothing, go as far as appreciating how privileged it is just to have two arms and hands and legs when some don’t, appreciation works well because with every step we take we are making this world a better place weather you are working for someone else to being a mom or caretaker for someone, with every step you take you are making yours and other peoples lives better, just sitting here thinking is you making the world a better place especially if you are choosing to change your mind for the better and positive. Start living more in the moment because if you are too busy thinking about other things then you cannot truly give your best to coming up with solutions, if you have 10 things on your mind and your doing 1 of those ten things then you are not giving your best to the one thing that you are doing, your creativity will not be as strong weighed down with other thoughts, you will not be able to be the best that you can be leaving yourself feeling that you were not satisfied with yourself or that you could have done more, when you live in the moment it helps you get into the Zone which is powerful. If you were to die a minute from now…what would matter most to you?, would it be the things that you are worried about?, this question helps when you are under stress, it brings things into perspective, usually we think about these things when people close to us die, and someones death could be life altering for the person left behind, but I say why wait till someone dies!?, why not do it right now?, appreciating what is really important and start living life!, doing this on a regular basis could change the way you live your life and the decisions that you make, it might create you to be a happier person which in turn could help you be more creative in your life, it could even help you feel healthier, our bodies do not respond well to stress so the tools that I am giving you here are for a happier and healthier life and how much vitamins your body receives from the food you eat, so now you know you have a choice on how many so called problems you have just by where your focus is, if you do not believe in problems then they just don’t exist plain and simple, you can either focus on the glass half empty or the glass half full, it’s your choice and being appreciative helps in this matter, like if you do not have a car…appreciate that you have two legs, if you do not have a mom or a dad then appreciate the people in your life who do love you, whatever you give your attention to has power, you are a world changer and as world changers they don’t have time to focus on what they don’t have or the so called problems, they look for solutions and get it done even if it is something small…they do that one thing that they are called to do, also put a smile on your face because it’s contagious and you never know if someone was feeling so dark that they were contemplating ending their life but because you smiled at them it gave them a spark of hope to keep going and to think maybe things aren’t as bad as they seem, that’s why what we think is more important than what others think because whatever we think…were right, healthy mind healthy life so start focusing on the positive things that will create solutions and change in ours and others life for the better, be a world changer.

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ALONE=ALL ONE

We as human beings were made to connect to one another, you know that feeling you get when you walk into a room either bad or either good?, that is you connecting to the energy of others, we have gifts but we are taught to ignore our gifts and shut down, we are taught to run from what feels supposedly bad to us, so we either drink, do drugs, have sex, eat and the list goes on and on of things we do to keep ourselves busy or from feeling supposedly bad, and usually the choices we make can be harmful ones at that. Feeling lonely is like the same thing except the person that we are trying to disconnect from is ourselves so we find ways to keep us busy and disconnected from the pain, actually we are following what others are doing to get over pain and we don’t even know why were doing them, so ask yourself the next time you are feeling lonely…”is this me being all one?”, ask if this is you being centered and then just listen to what your soul has to say to you, after awhile you will start to get comfortable with yourself and being alone and centered, and eventually feeling more peace, true peace comes from within and not from something outside of yourself, so it makes perfect sense to go within instead of go without (outside of yourself), eventually by doing this you will start to feel happy, alive, connected, and centered, eventually you will be more comfortable with being alone and then what will happen is you will feel more happy, alive, connected and centered. Happiness is not something that we do, it’s something that we are and it comes from the inside, and that is what your trying to tap into, into the happiness that is already there and that has been there all along, but you ignored it and deserted it and tried to find it outside of yourself, and that is not how it works because the only true happiness that you can get comes from within. You can ask yourself throughout the day if you are being all one, like if something bad happens during the day then stop and ask yourself if you are all one right now, something that would normally make you run then allow yourself to comfort you, tap into the truth and the strength of you, because outside of you is weakness that cannot stand on two legs like you and will fall, so you have to be your strength and as you become stronger you take on new challenges and your life changes and the true you starts coming out and you start feeling all one and centered, not alone really because your connected to everything and what you really want is to connect with something, so it might as well be with yourself, so ask yourself “is this me being all one?”.

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